Is a softer mattress for me?
The defining question you should ask when looking for a mattress is: will this mattress support me? If you're of a lighter stature or you prefer to sleep on your side, the answer to this question about softer mattresses would be yes. This is because you won't be straining the mattress much, and extra cushioning on the shoulders and hips means your spine can be appropriately aligned when sleeping on your side. If you're of a heavier stature, a softer mattress will not support you and can leave you waking up with aches and pains.